I think not being involved kills relationships. Whenever you find yourself not including somebody your supposed to care about it kills it. Fellows I’m not saying Follow your Women around and never give her space. lol Same thing to you Women please don’t start stalking your man and hiding in the bushes at his friends house waiting to see if he is going to show up there like he said.lol Seriously not being involved isn’t good. If you don’t have any idea where he/she is then you got a problem. If you find yourself making big changes in your life and that person doesn’t know you got problems. You got to be more Involved. Especially when you have trust in the person. It can be difficult.