Guys What is the worst Xmas gift you ever received? I think my worst gift I ever got was a cup the said football on it. Turned out to be the only gift I received that year. People say xmas is not about the gifts and I feel it is true seeing that I spent most of my xmas on this earth receiving nothing. But every now and then you want to know the person or someone actually thought of the gift. And didnt get it becuz you asked for it or knew you were going to receive it. What happened to the surprise. I never ever got one of those. So if you want to give me a great gift surprise me.
Ok so i’m going to state how I really feel about this. Now as Society puts this the man is to work and have the career. That provides for the woman and family. Its not supposed to be the other way around. I do see alot of guys working hard and providing in this order. Nothing is totally wrong with that statement. But I do have a few things I want to change about it or at least tell you my rule. My rule goes like this;” The Man is to work and have a career that brings the possibilities and great chance that his woman doesn’t have to work. But if she wishes to work allow her to do so.” I don’t get why guys have to tell and make their lady not work. Whats wrong with that? I personally don’t care and think its a good idea that she does. What if we start a family and I die? She wasn’t working because I paid for everything. and its been years since she worked? How will that family survive now? Life insurance will only pay so much. Also the more revenue we bring in together would make it a easier life for both of us. We all seen more breakups and divorces over not having money. I’m Not saying your relationship is not stronger than money, but letting you know not having the money could hurt and if not be a issue. I know a guy whom married this women and tell her not to work anymore. She wanted to work but quit her job just to make the guy happy. The funny thing is he makes about 800k a year. she was making about 600k a /yr. thats over a million dollars that could of been a annual household income. I dont care if she work guys I only care about what makes my family better. Get your priorities straight and say fuck your pride sometimes. You will live a better life.
You guys ever go outta town somewhere and feel like this? This is how I’m feeling right now. And Im with the worst person in the world to be on that island with My mother. lol. If the naggin and telling me I should do this and that don’t stop then somebody better learn to breathe underwater. (not really love my mom but going through one of those moments). If this island had a xbox and great beer this place would be awesome. What im getting at is please save me either get me off the island or bring me great beer. Bored out my mind.
Well IM not sure If I should be worried or not. But Lately I have been noticing my Lady has been posting on her facebook alot of pictures of engagement rings. Now I honestly dont know why she has been posting so many. We been together for a year. and I asked her about it she would say my sister.has been looking at engagement rings and she needs ideas. Now I believe her and trust that is what she is doing. But sometimes I guess I wonder. Not saying I have a problem with getting engaged. But I wonder if its the right time for it and if im prepared. I do think I just worry sometimes. I catch myself worrying about the dumbest thing and tell myself to stop. When I worry about something concerning her I talk to her about it and feel secure about the conversation I had. But my question to some of you In a couple or single, If you were in my situation would you worry?
For my first blog I really want everyone to understand me and just know how I work. First thing first is my personal quote for my entire blog. “No matter what day your reading this remember this. Its the first day for me and the first day for you” . I say this because I want you to approach this blog with an open mind. I will share my thoughts or Ideas not always as I perceive them but how I believe others may receive them..So you will never know If im serious or not. that is up for you to decide. I welcome your opinions and thoughts no matter how cruel they may be.. I will make you laugh sometimes. okay maybe alot. You need to have a sense of humor when reading this. Other times you will read a very passionate message from me. After all we suppose to care right? One last thing I try not to do this. But I write how I feel. So just a fair warning profanity will be in use sometimes. No one under 18 read my blog. Seriously. I don’t want people reading and writing me back complaining about my kid read this and now he jumped off a bridge and its your fault- type stuff. lol Cause i’m just gonna laugh. Anyways I hope you like my blogs.
No matter what day your reading this remember this. Its the first day for me and the first day for you.